Steering Through the Storm: Your Guide to Navigating Life's Changes

This past month, honestly? It's been intense. The day of the lunar eclipse, March 13th, I got hit with a stomach virus that just knocked me flat. For weeks, I was trying to recover, and it wasn't just my body that was struggling. It felt like, you know, my whole life was being shaken up. Like I was being told to just stop and really look at everything. As I started to feel a bit better, it hit me: this was a wake-up call. A nudge to really check in with every part of my life – work, relationships, the daily stuff – and see what was actually working.

And you know what? It was like my angels were practically sending me billboards, with all the master numbers and signs. I took it as a clear message that things were shifting, making room for the life I'd been dreaming of. But it also meant I had to get real with my intentions, dig into what was holding me back – those fears, those obstacles – so I could figure out how to move forward.

Even though I felt like I was on the right path spiritually, this experience showed me there were deeper layers to explore. And I'm guessing, maybe you've felt something similar? Like a collective shake-up? It wasn't just a little nudge; it was more like a siren call, telling us to look inside and find the strength to use these changes for something bigger. To transform, not just survive.

So, you're probably wondering, how do we actually do this? How do we take these crazy shifts and turn them into something good?

Well, let's talk about some of the tools that helped me realign my footing and start building the life I wanted. To get through that "siren call", I needed to use both inner and outer tools. First, I focused on deepening my connection with my angels – my main guides – and my intuition."

"It wasn't just about a quick check-in; it was about getting real honest. I revisited my intentions, talked to my angels directly, and started breaking down the steps to get from where I was to where I wanted to be. This meant taking it slow, really understanding what my spiritual tools were telling me, and being super aware of my inner thoughts. You know, asking myself: What do I need to let go of? What's helping me? And how do I move past the things that are keeping me stuck?

For me, it was about looking at my role as a family caregiver and letting go of feeling like I had to do it all. And honestly, this is something we all deal with, right? Learning to be honest with ourselves and take action based on that honesty.

And then, there were the cards. You know, tarot and oracle. They weren't telling me the future, but they were showing me the energies around me, things I knew deep down but maybe wasn't seeing clearly. Cards like the Hanged Man kept popping up, telling me to slow down, be patient, and look at things differently. And the Wheel of Fortune reminded me that life has its ups and downs, and to trust the process.

The eclipses, astrologically, were just as powerful. They were like, 'Hey, pay attention here.' They highlighted areas where I needed to find balance.

It wasn't just about reading cards or looking at charts, though. It was about really reflecting on what they meant for me, journaling, and connecting the dots. It's about using them as a compass, you know, to find our way through the uncertainty."

You know how I'm always talking about self-reflection and journaling on my blog? Well, these consistent practices became even more crucial anchors for me during this intense period. They were, as they always are, my way of sorting through the intense emotions and finding clarity amidst the chaos. I didn't just jot down what happened each day; I really dug deep, asking myself those tough questions that I always do, like, 'Okay, what am I actually learning here?' and 'What beliefs are holding me back from what I truly want?'

Journaling, as you know, is my long-standing safe space for honest talks with myself. I explored my fears, my desires, you know, those deepest truths we sometimes try to ignore. It was, as it always is, like finally seeing the patterns in my life, the good and the not-so-good. And by reflecting on everything, as I consistently do, I started to understand myself and my needs on a whole new level.

This wasn't just about getting stuff off my chest, though that always helps! It was, as it always is, about creating space for my inner wisdom to come through. I found that when I slowed down and actually wrote out my thoughts, as I consistently do, I could connect with my intuition and get clear on what to do next. It was, as it always is, like shining a light on my inner self, finally seeing how my inner world and the outer reality I was creating were connected.

Quieting the mind, even for just a few minutes each day, helped me quiet the mental chatter and connect with that still point within. It was like finding a refuge within the storm. Mindfulness, on the other hand, brought me back to the present moment. Instead of getting lost in worries about the future or regrets about the past, I focused on the simple things: the sensation of my breath, the feeling of my feet on the ground, the sounds around me.

These practices weren't just about stress relief; they were about cultivating inner peace and presence. They helped me approach challenges with a calmer, clearer perspective, allowing me to respond rather than react

And then there's boundary setting. This one's huge, especially during times of upheaval. When everything feels chaotic, it's easy to get swept up in other people's needs and demands. But learning to say 'no,' to protect your time and energy, is crucial for maintaining your sanity and staying grounded.

For me, this meant evaluating my commitments and identifying where I was overextending myself. It meant having honest conversations with loved ones about my limitations. And it meant prioritizing my own well-being, even when it felt uncomfortable.

Setting boundaries isn't selfish; it's self-preserving. It's about recognizing that you can't pour from an empty cup. By creating healthy boundaries, you create space for yourself, space to heal, to grow, and to navigate change with clarity and strength.

Perhaps the most powerful tool in navigating change is shifting your perspective. Instead of viewing challenges as roadblocks, what if we saw them as opportunities for growth? What if the 'siren call' wasn't a punishment, but a wake-up call, urging us to step into our full potential?

This isn't about denying the pain or pretending everything's okay. It's about consciously choosing to look for the lessons, the hidden blessings, the potential for transformation. It's about reframing our narrative, from 'Why is this happening to me?' to 'What can I learn from this?'

This shift in perspective is key to manifestation. When we approach challenges with a mindset of growth and possibility, we open ourselves up to new opportunities and create space for the life we truly desire.

Once we've begun to shift our perspective, the next step is to get crystal clear on what we actually want to create. It's not enough to simply want the pain to stop; we need to actively define our desired reality. What does that look like? How does it feel?

This is where visualization and affirmations come in. Take some time to visualize your ideal life in vivid detail. See yourself living with joy, purpose, and abundance. Feel the emotions associated with that reality. This process helps to imprint your desires onto your subconscious mind.

Then, use affirmations to reinforce those desires. Repeat positive statements like, 'I am creating a life filled with joy and abundance,' or 'I am aligned with my true purpose.' Affirmations help to shift your mindset and attract the energy of your desired reality.

Clarity is power. The more clearly you define what you want, the more effectively you can steer your ship in that direction.

Manifestation isn't just about thinking positive thoughts; it's about taking inspired action. This means finding the balance between doing the inner work—shifting your perspective, defining your desires—and taking practical steps in the real world.

It's about trusting your intuition. That inner voice, that gut feeling, often guides us towards the right opportunities. Pay attention to those nudges. They might lead you down unexpected paths, but they're usually aligned with your highest good.

And it's about aligned action. This isn't just any action; it's action that feels authentic and aligned with your values and desires. It's about taking steps that feel right, even if they're small.

Don't wait for the perfect moment. Inspired action is about taking consistent, aligned steps, trusting your intuition, and moving forward with faith and courage.

Underlying all of this is the power of intention. Intention is like setting the course for your ship. It's about consciously directing your energy and focus towards what you want to create.

When you set a clear intention, you're not just hoping for change; you're actively guiding it. You're sending a signal to the universe, to your subconscious mind, that you're ready for something new.

Intention gives your actions purpose. It transforms you from a passive observer to an active creator of your life. It's the force that aligns your thoughts, feelings, and actions, steering you towards your desired outcome.

So, be intentional. Be clear about what you want. And trust that your intention, combined with aligned action, will guide you through the storm and towards the life you're meant to live.

To further integrate these concepts and empower your transformation, let's work with affirmations and journaling. Here are some affirmations you can use:

Affirmations:

• Change is an opportunity for growth and expansion.

• I trust that everything is unfolding for my highest good.

• I am adaptable and open to life’s transitions.

• I choose to embrace change rather than resist it.

• I am safe and supported during times of transition.

• I trust that life is leading me exactly where I need to be.

• I release the need for control and trust the process of life.

• I am strong enough to handle anything that comes my way.

• I accept the natural flow of life and trust where it takes me.

• Change allows me to step into my highest potential.

• I am at peace with life’s constant evolution.

Journaling Prompts:

• What limiting beliefs am I ready to release to create space for my desired reality?

• What small, aligned action can I take today to move closer to my goals?

• What is my intuition guiding me to pay attention to right now?

• What intentions do I want to set for this week to steer my ship in the right direction?"

So, remember this, dear friend: You are not alone in this journey. Change can be daunting, but you possess the inner strength and resilience to navigate any storm. You have the power to transform challenges into your greatest manifestations.

Trust in your intuition, honor your sensitivity, and take those inspired steps towards the life you truly desire. You are supported, you are loved, and you are capable of creating a reality that aligns with your soul's deepest calling.

And if you found this article helpful, please share it with someone who might need a little encouragement today. Let's create a ripple effect of support and transformation together.

Thank you for reading,

Angela